If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins.

I normally curb myself from interfering too much in his life (no I'm not talking about my man here). My approach is: "The less you interfere in a boy's life, the closer you will be to him. Simply be there." But this is too much. I love him to the bone, therefore I have to stand up for him. No, he didn't make me do this. Dia tak tahupun. Cuma bila dia asyik malu dan/atau sedih, aku tak suka. Aku kesian kat dia. So here I am, succumbing to my ke-menyibuk-an. Maka to whom this may concern: Please understand that he is so less than perfect. He has flaws (nobody knows about it better than me). A whole lot of it. But sometimes that's what makes him the boy I so love. If you love him that much (sebab kadang2 aku tengok macam deepest love habis, but then again, natural lah tu), please stop talking bad things about him so openly. Dia memang banyak tak betul, aku tau. Tapi sume boleh bawak bincang privately. All of us have our low time in relationship, when things go wrong, when things do not suit our best needs and/or wants. I know it is your own 'home', where you can voice out whatever that is within you in whatever modes you like it. But like you, aku tak suka, aku nak cakap jugala kan. For now, aku buat kesimpulan, mereka ini belum matang. Aku belum juga. But I am learning. Hard. But otherwise missy, I think you are okay.