"Sayang, Abang nak jadi perempuan"

what would u do if satu hari, ur hubby come home n tell u "Honey, I want to be a woman" ---> Husband Who Turn Into Woman, on Oprah. dilema trans. Jenny, who used to be James, said that she was trapped in a man's body, n as a child, die doa that LOVE would cure him (or her.. err), dan prayer die was answered when Grace fell in luv with him. They live a happy n successful married life with 2 boys, but after 10 years.. tatau apa snapped James, tp tetibe 'desire' to become a woman dtg lagi.. so he told his wife.. blah blah blah.. pegi treatment n full operation, now he is a she. but Grace is surely a HERO (Jenny's exact word), sbb she chose to uphold her wedding vows n stayed besides James (or Jenny.. oh I am so konfius) "for better, for worse".. basically becos they are SOULMATES.

that was James/Jenny's story, all beatifully compiled in her book "She Wasn't There" (she's a prof in writing). and the Q is: what would u do if that happens to u? i have nothing against trans. I believe diorg tak penah mintak jd camtu.. berlaku naturally. but it is definitely morally n religiously wrong to 'totally change' urself from man to woman. read a book on the 'trans culture in m'sia' (tak ingat title.. just browsed thru it - as usual- while waiting for my bf who always seem to be in luv with all the books- err irrelevant) - I came up with one konklusi yg.. yep again.. tidak mereka minta jadi begitu. pliz have some respects for them (for those yg ada, bagusla.. ni ckp utk sesape yg.. u know..) lalala then again.. kalo berlaku kat kite apa yg berlaku kat Grace? err.. for better, FOR WORSE???