NO MATTER WHAT

"I don't want to mind my own business, yours is much more interesting" ---> maka itulah perbincangan kita hari ini. kenapalah manusia suke sgt amek tahu hal org lain? maybe itula human nature. tapinye ade masyarakat yg terlebeh 'caring' nye. terlebeh mengambil tahu. itu yg tak tahan. kalo sekadar nak amek tahu dan keep to diri sendiri tape gak, yang cukup busan kalo suke sebar2kan mende yg die sendiri tak tahu kesahihannye. alaaahaaai. tapi the key utk mengatasi prasaan bengang terhadap mereka2 yg TERLALU suke amek tahu hal org lain ni ialah dengan leaving them to their own thoughts. what other people think of me is none of my business kan? saye takleh kontrol camne org pikir, rase, gossip tentang saye. kenapa kite resah sgt apa org pikir pasal kite ek? am penah baca ia adalah sebenanye the need for approval. sbbnye kite idup dlm society. kita nak sumeorg approve kite, apa kite buat, kite resah apa org pikir kalo kite buat camtu, cakap macam ni. mmg mcm tu. maka inila major problem/halangan utk rase sonok: others skang ni have control of our happiness. kite actually ade 2 pilihan saje: 1)to have peace of mind, atau 2)to worry pasal apa others would think. we cannot do both. tapi more often than not, slalu nak pilih nombo 2. kenapalah haai. kite tak bole please sumeorg setiap masa. kite kene ingat kalo org tak setuju dgn pilihan/lifestyle kite, itu their business. kite tak semestinye sukung cara die gak. tapi susah betolla nak wat camtu. even worse kekdg kite nak explain apa yg kite wat kat sumeorg, kenapa saye buat tu, buat ni. kenapa kite explain diri kite? again, the need for approval. susahla kalo sume mende buat pon nak explain. tapi kite tamau dimisunderstood. itula pasal. bile amek jalan mendiam diri jek, mulela keluar crite2 rekaan, sbbnye, sbb kite tak crite sendiri. sure, kite bole wat tak tau je, tapi makin buat tak tau, makin bykla dongeng yang tercipta. itu la yg susah tu. cara utk mengatasi ni ialah dgn to be true to yourself, jgn offend org lain, tapi be true to yourself. kalo kite choose to explain, do it sbb kite nak share thoughts/opinion/keadaan kite ngan org lain, bukan sbb kite nak approval. sbbnye, permission yang diri sendiri bagi dah cukup sufficient, org lain takyah nyebok. haha harshnye pekataan nyebok. tapela. haha. kalo boleh gune cara2 tuh mesti bole hepi hepi dan hepi. eheh tampal lagu tema baru kami ; ) bes bes.

No Matter What: No matter what they tell us. No matter what they do. No matter what they teach us. What we believe is true. No matter what they call us. However they attack. No matter where they take us. We'll find our own way back. I can't deny what I believe. I can't be what I'm not. I know I'll love forever. I know, no matter what. If only tears were laughter. If only night was day. If only prayers were answered. Then we would hear God say. No matter what they tell you. No matter what they do. No matter what they teach you. What you believe is true. And I will keep you safe and strong. And sheltered from the storm. No matter where it's barren. A dream is being born. No matter who they follow. No matter where they lead. No matter how they judge us. I'll be everyone you need. No matter if the sun don't shine or if the skies are blue. No matter what the end is. My life began with you. I can't deny what I believe. I can't be what I'm not. I know, I know. I know this love's forever. That's all that matters now no matter what.